There is an old adagio that African Dice: "What eats roe, not knows that the chicken in culo le duele " queriendo of saying that when disfrutamos things, sometimes we do not stop to think what it has cost at which it produces. Everyone thinks that the main problems are the integration of immigrants, language, changing environment, changing values, the everyday individual, the various forms of discrimination ... What people do not know is that immigrants encounter a major problem: the "Westerunioneados." In fact, it varies from country to become an NGO, a bank Devis for his people. And many, as a matter of ethics and honor to send money beyond their means depriving them of everything.
The problem, as always, is based on the vision we have all of Europe. The country of white is a rich country. And anyone who comes to live in, becomes rich. Friends and family who have stayed in the country you imagine the life that's gone and you are surrounded by luxury, light, delicious and jeweled conditions do not stop to help.
And given that African families are large and there is always an aunt or a cousin know, the aid is different: support for a brother's schooling, help for the funeral of an aunt, helps to pay a colossal debt , help with hospital expenses of a sick uncle ... Help solve things that only money. And the poor immigrant who suffers for days subsisting after day in Europe, is sacrificed for the christening of his distant cousin, passes the heating on cold refusing to save for the wedding of his cousin. Are deprived of everything. Do not buy clothes, not out, spend the minimum to send money home. Becomes the sole provider of all a great and large family that does not understand when he says that "Europe is difficult." And some take advantage
. Every time they call you hear "we days without anything to eat," "children eat nothing but love you so much" "Let brother, do not think we" "That e sla poverty compared to our dignity? .. . Phrases calculated and measured by experts blackmailers who live confined in a limited world and short of lights, in which the basic thought is that if you live in Europe, you have money. Sometimes even relatives are pushing themselves. And others say "help me to go to Europe without imagining the impossibility and difficulty of the event. The thing sometimes even go further and slash the ridiculous when some cousins or friends, ask for expensive items that neither can afford immigrant: latest generation cameras, computers and ultra fresh from the market, expensive designer clothing, smart phones ... They ask for everything. It knows even the names of the devices before they hit the market.
This also is caused by the image that there are some who live in appalling conditions in Europe and yet, to return to Africa and spend what little they have and live in luxury, with big car, inviting god all round, handing out tickets right and left, caricaturing an image of an immigrant who has become rich in the country of whites and "I've gone with nothing and came back with everything." So feel adored. Everyone praises him rich. Feel admired but goes into a loop that can not leave and can not stop spending so as not to disappoint his fans interested. And people think that all immigrants live well and call and call and do not stop to ask without considering what it costs the other to get money. And the immigrant will not stop sending remittances, one after the other, and more and more ...
When you're far, everything seems more serious. You live in constant alarm of losing people you love, not to see them again and you can not sleep when you say someone is sick. And do not rest until you have sent all savings for medical expenses even if you say you only have a cold. I feel bad you're not going to school for lack of funds. I feel bad that your uncle's family have nothing, and so many things. I feel bad all over and everything seems to be far more serious.
The immigrant is the least selfish person can be known. Can not think of self and sacrifices himself for all his family. Sends half of what they earn because they feel bad that his people suffer. It becomes an NGO for poor heart that suffers from all the others, simply because they see them. And this prevents you from moving or save it for better living.
In African countries, the "westernunion" are those who live on remittances that they send their relatives living in northern countries. Many appreciate the fact of receiving foreign aid but many others are leveraged into a new career westerunioneado and live well, at the expense of others who live in the most chaste of the possibilities. All people who eat eggs without knowing that the hen's own hurts them. Suck the poor immigrant without knowing all that hard earned money in a society that is not what many of us think it is. Sometimes, there is usually a family member like my mother always says: "Child, do not worry about me, I'm on my land and I shall die of hunger." Many
sacrifice greatly to go back without thinking, because it would mean failure and be the shame of the family. And the worst part is that there will be no help or moral support from anyone because no one understood to have returned. Unfair behavior toward someone who puts all his people himself.
suffer there and suffer here. Definitely, no rest in need.
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